Tuesday, September 8, 2009

The Negativity that has been ingrained in us!!!!

Since long it has been known that whatever we think will always come true. So all our elders say that do not speak bad, do not think bad, do not do this,...... do not do that.......
All do not, do not, do not, do not......
If everything is "do not" then what should be done? We never heard any one tell us that do this or do that......
Did you realize, we have been programmed to accept the negativity right from our birth and this continues till our end.
How more beautiful it would have been, if we had been told that do this, do that, ........
Today I make conscious efforts so that I communicate in a more positive manner to my daughter, my family, my colleagues and everyone with whom I interact. At first you might find it difficult to incorporate this in communication, but just with little conscious effort you will be on a great plane of positive communication and this will do magic.
More on positivity later. Do post your comments.

2 comments:

Mrugank Mehta said...

Excellent! Rishikesh, I am impressed with your thoughts. I have seen here in USA, Parents or guardian do not talk about negativity with their children. Unfortunately, in our society, negativity is more dominant.We have been taught less about positivity in daily communication.

Mihirr P Thaker said...

Hi,You have highlighted a very important aspect. We all pass through the following stages for the task we undertake.
1 - unconscious incompetence
2 - conscious incompetence
3 - conscious competence
4 - unconscious competence

You have brought us through Stage1 to Stage2 through your blog.

Now let us work together for Stage3 & Stage4